I've been hosting Thanksgiving for at least 10 years now, I think. We usually just have "The Brothers" {my brothers-in-law} over. Sometimes there's a niece or nephew along too. They don't really care if I do everything perfectly or not. They come to Thanksgiving at my house for 2 reasons:
- To be with family.
- To eat turkey and all the fixin's.
- To admire "pretty" Fall decor.
- To fill up on appetizers.
- To feel crowded at the table by too much centerpiece "stuff."
- To try new gourmet recipes.
- To feel like they have to be careful not to spill on the tablecloth or cloth napkins.
- To feel pressured to help wash dishes because of all the fancy dishes used.
And I decided to give in to hubs' suggestion that he gives me every year.
Yup - those are paper plates my friends!! Nothing but the finest Chinette for our Thanksgiving meal! You know what? Everybody appreciated it! No dish-washing guilt for the guys and no worry about the mess. Of course, they were amused that I still went with the cloth napkins. Baby steps, baby steps. :)
This year's Thanksgiving was definitely less stressful and the cleanup was far easier. Why was I trying to have the perfect table setting and who was I trying to impress? By letting go a little, the whole experience was more pleasant. No, I won't have my Thanksgiving table featured in a magazine, but my guests will be comfortable and enjoy themselves!
And there was this {Pumpkin Cheesecake Cake by Shugary Sweets} for dessert, so how could there be any complaints?! :)
I hope you all had a blessed time at Thanksgiving! Have you tried letting go a little lately?
And if you need any tried and true holiday meal ideas, be sure to check out my Thanksgiving Menu board on Pinterest!
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Have a blessed day friends!
Perfect table setting! I don't have much for holiday decor. I've been drooling over Pinterest boards and bloggers table settings.
ReplyDeleteI'm all about less stress. Good for you, for focusing on enjoying your family instead! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm all about less stress and when my dishwasher gets married and moves out I'll probably start using paper. LOL!
ReplyDeleteBig even small steps are big steps for me because I have big feet size hugs to you!
Love ya!
I too have decided to make holiday meals more casual and to allow others to bring something, but I can't do paper plates yet! Good for you!
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